How a family can get out of credit card debt
Written by Shane Higginbottom
This may sound a bit corney but it is true in our lives and worked for us.
You have to have a purpose a raison d’etre and a goal in mind.
Our goal was to buy a house in the coming year.
Our personal credit card horrow story goes back five years.
When I first met my gilfriend she was in a nasty child custody battle for her son. Being the committed
boyfriend that I am and having the available credit.
I decided to help her out by paying for some of the lawyers fees using my credit cards. The total fees at the end of
the custody battle were well into the 20k range.
Which really tapped our available resources and were bleeding us dry monthly.
That and we were both very irresponsible with our money, eating out, going to movies ,concerts shopping. The list goes on.
It gets worse we started going to the payday loans places to make ends meets, pay credit card minimum payment, rent food and bills.
Until the fateful day when the piper came a calling and some of the bills went to collection, hydro threatening to cancel, phone threatening to cancel.
What we didnt know was that our incomes were sufficient at the time to more than pay for everything.
But like I said our irresponsibility with money and credit cards blinded us.
Here is how we did it and its a plan we used to get out debt and buy a house in just under 6 months.
I would say cutting up our credit cards helped but there just wasnt room on them to be using them.
Our plan went like this:
We decided to live frugally
We added up our income.
Made a list of everything and everyone we owed.Starting from our expenses and the fixed amounts that we knew
wouldnt change.
Ie:
rent,
heat,
hydro,
cable,
phone,
internet,
car payment,
life insurance,
house (apt)insurance,
Car insurance.
We made a deal with the lawyer to pay monthly. An added fixed cost of 300/month
Now about the credit card debt, which was over 20 k.
We had to swallow our pride and just fess up and admit that we screwed up and called our credit card companies.
What we were looking was a payment agreement and a lower interest rate and at first try we werent all that successful until out of
desperation (we called numerous times) and basically told them that we were on the verge on just our right declaring bankruptcy
and that if we did then they wouldn’t be seeing any of the money.
What the credit card company asked for was if we could make a lump sum payment of 8k. I almost fell off of my chair here I was asking to have the amount of
interest lowered and make a payment arrangement because we were cash strapped and they wanted 8k?
What we managed to do was to call friends and family and explain our sordid situation and asked for help as a gift that we might or might not be able to return.
This took alot for us to do.
In the interim we went back to basics and cancelled our cable one of the 2 cell phones, bought bus passes instead of driving the car and paying gas.
Went to food kitchens and food places that help out the poor with handouts.
All to save money which we would be using for the lump sum payment.
Then it dawned on us that we had 3 credit cards all with differnet interest rates.
What we did with the money we had managed to save was paydown the lowest balance first, not the highest interest rate first our thinking was that it would
free up money to go to towards the others with higher interest rates.
And the difference went to our lump sum fund.
SO for instance we had three cards which were maxed out 2k @ 9% 8k @ 18% and 10 k @ 12.5%
We realized that our monthly income was approx 5800/month and that after writing everything down that our monthly fixed expenses were
approx 2297$ (3000$) but were overspending by about 1700 month on other things like shopping, movie rental, going out for dinner.
We never did manage to convince our friends and family to help us out. Sad really. When you need a leg up in the world that it isnt there.
So we did on our own.
By trimming down our fixed expenses ie car insurance (cancelled it) no car for a while. and no gas. cancelling our cable eating from food kitches bi-weekly
and having our families help us out with the food bill.We managed to save just over 1000/month.
We didnt manage to pay off all of the credit cards but we made a good dent in them and got our personal finances under control.
What’s intersting and this might be a good lesson for you out there.
Is that banking and finances and getting credit is really not tied too closely to the real world. What I mean is that, when it came time to
to start looking for a house we realized that we would have to get a downpayment togethor.
Which wasnt really anywhere on the horizon honestly, considering that we couldnt save. But what the bank wants to see is numbers.
In our case they wanted to see 12,586 dollars in our account. approx 5% down payment.
What was alos intersting was that when our mortgage broker pulled our crdit bureau information. (beacon score) for one reason or another
It was pulling information from before my credit meltdown, so I looked numbers wise (again not reflected in the real world)
This gave us some bargaining room with some of the people we wanted to have help us out with getting a mortgage. So what we did was again go to the well
of our friends and ask them for money which we would payback immediately. How did we do that. Our bank at the time was offering a 7% cashback mortgage.
So we pulled the numbers togethor from our friends telling them that in 10 days their money would be repayed from the cash back.
Again just showing the bank numbers that had nothing to do with reality. So in essence we got our first house with nothing down and some money to spare.